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 Look Forward To Great New Romances and Relationships 

Since that last article on adult dating tips and advice.

you should have been working the system and looking and thinking attractive. You should look forward to having what you may not have had before your marriage - a series of maturing love affairs.

For those of you who are divorced, this issue we have good news for you and bad news.

First, here's the good news.

Statistically it has been shown that a divorced person has a better chance of being remarried (If that's what you want) than a person the same age who has never been married, and even a slightly better chance than one whose marriage was ended by death.

For example, 99% of men divorced at age 25 remarry, compared to 93% of still single men, and 97% of widowers.

For women, it was 99%, 88% and 93%, respectively.

The chance declines with age, but the decline is slower for the divorced.

And now the bad news.

If you are an uptight, strung out, belly down introvert, you are going to have to change your ways.

The old expression, "The bee that gets the honey does not hang around the hive," applies here.

Don't sit home and brood.

Get out of the house and change your mood. Do go alone.

Don't wait to meet someone as alone and unhappy as you.

Simply ask questions.

(Did you get that? You simply ask questions.) However, do not be a friendly puppy and run off with anyone who whistles.

DATE FOR PRACTICE

Let's talk about that first date.

(We'll discuss how to get dates coming your way later.)

For now we will assume you may have some new opportunities pop up when everyone knows you are single again.

For the ladies, in starting dating again, your first "yes" is the hardest.

Unless the man is absolutely impossible, do go out with him. (practice)

Do not make too big a thing of your first date.

• (Do not get apprehensive and allow yourself to think up some reason for cancelling the date either.)
  
• Do not mistake gratitude for love.
  

The first man or woman you date...... is not your last chance.... for marriage. In each part of the series, we'll give you new ideas and methods of meeting and dating many, many singles, so why should you see any necessity in running off with the first one?

You can change from a single with no suitors to one with a "which suitor to choose" problem.

First thing you need to do........

you must learn to enjoy being single because it may be over before you know it.

Enjoy your new-found freedom and look it right in the eye. It is pretty heady stuff.

To change your attitudes and "luck,"........

remember and consider the following as part of your new system:

1. You are desirable. A person did love you, desire you and did marry you. If you can attract one, you can attract others.

2. You are courageous. You hold your head high, and you don't complain.

3. You are comfortable. You can provide for yourself and look after your needs.

4. You are appealing. You are alone. (Men consider a loner much more helpless and sympathetic and they enjoy it. Women consider single men exciting.)

5. You are mysterious. A woman may have a Mrs. in front of her name, but no rings.

There is much speculation.

Go about life with a quiet smile and your lips sealed.


Your desirability grows.

6. You present an attractive package.

• You learn to become and to think attractive.
  
• You learn to think right and work the system.
  
  
• Remember, to win the prizes, you have to play the game. 
  
• Learn to express yourself as an individual.

Make you own life so that if the right person comes along, they won't feel they are saving you. Instead they will feel you are doing them a favor by sharing your life with them.

 USING SINGLES GROUPS

Let us change the subject slightly for a moment here and discuss where singles clubs can fit into your overall picture.

First of all, clubs and organized groups, provide a place and an opportunityto meet other single people.
1. The group activities can be fun, especially if the single-againer can be realisticin his or her expectations.
   
2. They can provide a way of getting back into the swing of things gradually and making new friends and getting dates.
   
3. Attending singles clubs are often also less expensive than most methods.
   
   
   
   Furthermore, group activities may provide a much-needed outlet for thesingle parent who feels trapped at home with children and limited re­sources.
   
   

   
   It is a social outlet where single people are well accepted, as opposed to married groups where a single is suspect.

   
   The club activity may be an easier initial social outlet for some. It is far less personal than dating and requires much less of a commitment.
   
   
   
   • Some newly sIngled may find going to a meeting or party less difficult than dating, It can be comforting to realize that others have some of the same problems and feelings.
     
   • Many single adults use clubs for a time to find themselves dates.
     
   • Then, as they do more dating, they may drop away from the clubs. 
   
   Other divorced and widowed people believe that it is a good idea to continue some group social contacts as long as one is still single.
   
   
   
   This is recommended as a better long-range system.
   The composItion and nature of these groups change with time, and there are constantly new people to meet.
   
   Staying with at least one group helps to keep one from being overly dependent on dating and is an insurance of some social outlets in the event that dates become hard to get.
   
   
   
   In other words, don't put all your eggs in one basket. 
   Reserve some time weekly to attend social functions and continue to meet and get acquainted with new single people -even if you are going steady. 

   Get active in the singles groups, it gives you an excusefor telephoning and making contact with other singles.

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